Kamilla Harra

How I use my Higher Self Connection to Help me Make Decisions: Step-by-Step Guide.

November 16, 2022

What do you do when you feel drawn to something, make your move, then suddenly some barriers pop up in your way? Do you take it as 𝐚 ‘𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩’ 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐔𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞 or do you push 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐬?

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐈 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞: I centre into my Inner Being, sit very quietly, tune into the ‘option in question’ & check whether it moves & uplifts me or not.

If the choice in question doesn’t lift me, & even if my mind says “it makes so much sense, let’s do it!” – I don’t go ahead.

If the choice feels elevating & exciting, yet I might notice fear or doubt – I know this is my shadow talking, so I work through the resistance, and say ‘Yes!’ to my soul’s excitement.

𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐬 from the Universe?

You are a part of life too, so you “communicate with the Universe” through signs…
AND
sometimes what “comes up” is not life telling you to turn back, it can be your manifested resistance to getting more from life.

e.g. some of my clients had colds & flu, devices break down, clocks stopping just before Deep Sessions with me – those were often the most Impactful sessions with massive changes for people.

Ultimately, whatever lifts your spirit, feels exciting & interesting to you is what will bring you joy, learning, satisfaction.
When we expand to receive more, fear-excitment is inevitable. However, it takes practice (or some very intense circumstance) for most people to learn the difference between “This is a SOLID NO’ which sometimes will feel like heaviness, tightness or even terror, and when it is an old pattern that needs to shift out of fear and into love.
Life comes in through us and is experienced on the inside, so It’s worth spending time getting to know how YOU experience your ‘Yes’, ‘No’ and ‘Maybe’

𝐓𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 ‘𝐘𝐞𝐬’ 𝓪𝓷𝓭 ‘𝐍𝐨’, 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞’𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐬, 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡: 𝐔𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝓸𝓻 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬, 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 & 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓾𝓽 𝓲𝓽.

“𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟: 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 & 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐈𝐭” 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐩 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝟐𝟓𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐍𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐨. 𝐖𝐢𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐨𝐰, will focus on deepening these abilities + more.
This is a 3-point Healing and Initiation process to: 𝐫𝐞-calibrate a 𝐃𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 awareness of 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟; 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐇𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐯𝐢𝐛𝐞𝐬 even when faced with pressure/conflict/other people’s agenda; make 𝐄𝐚𝐬𝐲 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 from your Greater self!

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P.S. Feel like going even Deeper & making the Biggest Changes for Yourself? Feel free to book a Discovery Session to chat about my Deepest Dive one-to-one programme to date and what it can do for you HERE.

5 Steps to Start Healing Shame & Guilt Right Now

September 27, 2022

Shame is one the most uncomfortable and suffering-inducing emotions we can have. Much intrigue, fear, sadness and maliciousness can stem from unresolved shame.

It can show up in many ways: shyness, insecurity, instability, low self-esteem, feeling bad/wrong, not good enough, upset, isolated, paranoid, blaming, confrontational or scared of conflict, afraid of connection or commitment (to life, yourself or other people).

Also, shame can be seen as… innocence…

It’s that feeling of ‘I am so vulnerable, so small in this Big World’…
so uncertain of myself, child-like shy, limited and innocently unaware of All I AM…

When we tap into this space of Innocence within shame… we start to unite these polarised but forever connected energies into a neutral state of Just Being…
Neither good or bad, right or wrong…

Being stuck on just one possibility of being with shame, we can’t quite move past it and onto the next stage.

Here are 5 Healing Steps to take to start shifting your relationship with shame:

1. Name it – shame can be one of the trickiest emotions to detect. We often hide it under sadness, anger and frustration, especially at others and life circumstances.You could start naming it neutrally: “I feel shame right now.”

2. Acknowledge Normalcy: if we make being ashamed wrong, we shame ourselves and make it bigger! So instead – look around and you’ll see that everybody is ashamed of something now and again. You are normal & aren’t weak for feeling this way!

3. Expose it: shame feeds off secrecy – once it’s in the open, it diminishes its grip on you. Write it with kindness in your journal, practice courage by sharing with a compassionate person you trust.

4. Stop the Self-Blame Thrower: we believe that if we stop shaming & berating ourselves, we won’t change. However, research and common sense show that it doesn’t work. We continue feeling bad and behaving in the same way. Hurt never heals, only Love does. Whenever you notice being judgy to self, use a higher path: “I forgive & accept myself for being imperfect. I open to seeing Truth and Love in Who I am.”

5. Seek Help: By working with gifted healers and heartful professionals, I moved much faster on my own journey with shame. These healing experiences all helped me uncover my individual lessons around self-loathing, self-dislike and self-judgement, allowing me to elevate into much deeper self-love and appreciation.

In a Shame-Healing transmission this Wednesday 28th of October, we will start healing Shame by taking 3 Steps – energetically, mentally and emotionally in a deep guided process.

to join, click HERE

Looking forward to seeing you then! Please RSVP “Going” or “Maybe” on fb, so Facebook reminds you when we go Live and when the Replay is ready!

P.S. Feel like going Deeper & making Bigger Changes for Yourself? In my “Love Being You” programme, we work a lot with shame where I bring people through individual journeys on emotional mastery and gaining your Great Life Power from shame. Feel free to book a Discovery Session to chat about my Deepest Dive one-to-one programme to date and what it can do for you HERE.

How to Overcome Insecurity around Taking Action

September 11, 2022

Things will always come up when we decide to venture into the unknown – the choice is to take new actions or to choose to see outer circumstance being something that stops us…

There is no shame in either- it’s a part of being human – and if we choose to believe that events-Universe happens TO US without our choice – we are subconsciously giving up our Power and buying into “victim mentality”.

Whether you blame the circumstance or yourself, blame plays the biggest disempowering role here as it blocks you from seeing the Truth – that you always have a choice and you are always in power.

𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙥 𝙪𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙙𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙧𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙚:

– pretend that the circumstance is bigger than we are… because…

– we forgot that we are Infinite and are the Creators of our reality and affect everything in it;

– we are running limiting programming in our subconscious;

– we believe that Fear is something to listen to & that it keeps us safe;

– we weren’t shown the ways to move past our fears & limiting beliefs.

🔥 I felt inspired to list here some of the Key Points I share with clients in the “Love Being You” programme to help them get unstuck and take action:

1. 𝙈𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙁𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝘾𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨: if you feel angry with life or yourself for not taking action – get curious instead. There is a reason why whatever is coming up for you is coming up – this moves you from a destructive energy of judgement into a creative, upward energy of exploration and adventure.

2. 𝘼𝙙𝙢𝙞𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙑𝙪𝙡𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 – without accepting how you feel, you keep what you need to work through in the Shadow. You can’t change what you can’t see.

3. 𝘼𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙇𝙚𝙩 𝙜𝙤 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙝𝙖𝙢𝙚:
shame keeps us smaller than any other emotion, and it dies when we expose it. Admitting and accepting Vulnerability is Courage and that is the first step to Power. Without courage we cannot change.

4. 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙎𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚:
We often feel stumped by challenges not because we are weak, stupid or incapable but because we were not taught at home or at school how to work through our triggers, love ourselves and apply spiritual principles to daily chalenges. Finding key teachings, tools and techniques to move through resistance, fear and apathy have been instrumental to me and many of my clients in changing who we are with grace and more ease.

I hope this helps anybody who is going through resistance to change right now.
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𝝜𝗼𝘄 𝐭𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝛎𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 E𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝐭𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳━𝝖𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗰𝐢𝗮𝐭𝐢𝗼𝗻̡ 𝗝𝗼𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗙𝘂𝗻 𝗲𝛎𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗱𝗮𝘆!

August 11, 2022

Recently I had a massive a-ha moment that literally changed how much I enjoyed my life and everything in it!

Somebody pointed out an interesting perspective to me: I was expecting & ultra-focusing on Big Things in life … in business, in relationships, in myself…

So what, you might ask?

High aspirations, Big dreams and all that…isn’t it Great?🍒

Well, as I put so much value on things being ‘The Best’, I was more disappointed with everything else, it wasn’t ‘good enough’ and I missed out on many other wonderful things just because they weren’t meeting my high expectations!

Like, if I planned to have a Good time – it had to be AMAZING!!!! (Definitely with ALL CAPS! :D) If I did something – it had to be Great! If I was making a choice, I’d only say Yes if I absolutely LOVED IT!
Perfectionism, unrealistic pressures on myself, self-criticism and all or nothing mentality, plus exhaustion!

Working with the “negative mindset” for over twenty years wasn’t enough – it’s like I cleared just one side of the coin… the Opposite side of it was “super-charged” by expecting the Best out of everything!

When I tuned into it, I could see my sweet innocent child self reaching out and hoping that the Best Miracle would happen and wash away all the Worst in the World…

I could see how when I was little and nobody showed me how to surrender difficult feelings, they felt overwhelmingly bad, so I wanted and “prayed for” overwhelmingly Good things instead!

So, once I recognised what I was doing, something clicked🌟:

1️⃣ I acknowledged my power in how what I chose to believe affected my ability to see and feel Good in the world.

2️⃣ I did not let myself get judgemental about myself. I stayed Curious, Kind and Honest. This is a chance to heal and make me feel better! :) Everything I get to discover – helps me!

3️⃣ I visualised the Big Lows I did not enjoy in life: despair, fear, upset, sadness down at the bottom of this big picture of life… and then I imagined seeing at the very top of it what I absolutely loved: the Huge Joy, Big Delight, overflowing Happiness — this allowed me to see how much space there was between the two – and how many things I was missing out on because I was only focusing on the Best and the Worst in life!

4️⃣ I then took a breath and imagined what else might be between these Best and Worst versions: and… there it was, my whole life – most of it was actually between these two points! And I was ignoring and paying little attention to So Much of it as I gave so little importance to the in-between things… the small and medium-size highs and lows, little surprises, small woes, the greys, bues, reds, pinks and violets and all other colours in between….

I was missing 🌈 the Rainbow of Experiences that makes up Life.

5️⃣ I made a mental choice to welcome all of the in-between things into my awareness, to recognise them as being incredibly worthy and important of my attention! :) and with that I welcomed myself back into life deeper than ever before – it’s like I moved from seeing parts of the picture into seeing everything in more colour, more hues, more shades!

The day I had done that is the day I started to effortlessly appreciate life more, this brought my disappointment way down as my expectations weren’t as high! I permitted myself to enjoy every little thing that came my way! And my life became naturally a lot more fun! 🍒

YOU are Your Power! : )

July 21, 2022

Your power is YOU –

your literal energy, aliveness, consciousness, presence and being.

Whenever I get taken up by believing that my being will feel better when I am more loved by others –

I start to feel inadequate, guilty and anxious to FIT my being into their expectations, desires and their definitions of me.

This instantly makes me feel off-centre, dis-empowered and dis-connected from the true source of my power – my unique presence and being.

It always helps to notice how bad that feels, so I know straight away that I’m attempting to plug into somebody else’s power and not my own…

So, I tune into me, truly notice my breathing and feelings, and breathe deeper through and beyond this discomfort –

out and beyond this sensation, beyond my body, beyond the room I’m in, beyond our planet and into the Infinite Consciousness of my being…

and return to Feeling Good again!