Things will always come up when we decide to venture into the unknown – the choice is to take new actions or to choose to see outer circumstance being something that stops us…
There is no shame in either- it’s a part of being human – and if we choose to believe that events-Universe happens TO US without our choice – we are subconsciously giving up our Power and buying into “victim mentality”.
Whether you blame the circumstance or yourself, blame plays the biggest disempowering role here as it blocks you from seeing the Truth – that you always have a choice and you are always in power.
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ค๐ฅ ๐ช๐จ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ข ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐จ๐ก๐ฎ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐:
– pretend that the circumstance is bigger than we are… because…
– we forgot that we are Infinite and are the Creators of our reality and affect everything in it;
– we are running limiting programming in our subconscious;
– we believe that Fear is something to listen to & that it keeps us safe;
– we weren’t shown the ways to move past our fears & limiting beliefs.
๐ฅ I felt inspired to list here some of the Key Points I share with clients in the “Love Being You” programme to help them get unstuck and take action:
1. ๐๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ข ๐๐ช๐ง๐๐ค๐ช๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐พ๐ช๐ง๐๐ค๐ช๐จ: if you feel angry with life or yourself for not taking action – get curious 
instead. There is a reason why whatever is coming up for you is coming up – this moves you from a destructive energy of judgement into a creative, upward energy of exploration and adventure.
2. ๐ผ๐๐ข๐๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐๐ช๐ก๐ฃ๐๐ง๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฎ – without accepting how you feel, you keep what you need to work through in the Shadow. You can’t change what you can’t see.
3. ๐ผ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ค ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐ข๐:
shame keeps us smaller than any other emotion, and it dies when we expose it. Admitting and accepting Vulnerability is Courage and that is the first step to Power. Without courage we cannot change.
4. ๐๐๐๐ง๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ช๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐:
We often feel stumped by challenges not because we are weak, stupid or incapable but because we were not taught at home or at school how to work through our triggers, love ourselves and apply spiritual principles to daily chalenges. Finding key teachings, tools and techniques to move through resistance, fear and apathy have been instrumental to me and many of my clients in changing who we are with grace and more ease.
I hope this helps anybody who is going through resistance to change right now.
Do like below and comment if you resonated with this post.
To find out how I could help you move out of fear of showing up in the world and becoming naturally you – Book a Discovery Call with me. :)